I recently created a new city, the reason being that I wanted to experience the game with players of my level and move at a steady pace, and not be given all the resources and workers for free.
A very friendly level 59 user who helps noob cities joined, and while the buffs and extra heroes are nice, he isn't staying forever.
I feel that this is slightly robbing my game experience and conflicts with my intial reason for making my own city. He has told me that if I don't want the help I'm welcome to kick him, but I'm concerned about losing the trust of my members. Help?